Hey you guys,
So if you caught the clip of the Hot Topic from Ms. Wendy Williams then you know we’re talking Russell Brand and his shocking revelation about his past relationship. Russell revealed that apart of him felt that his marriage with Katy Perry wouldn’t last long. He also stated that he pretty much hated her lifestyle as a pop star. There were very many valid points that Wendy made in regards to what may have led him to feel this way. I myself agree with the fact that Russell went into their relationship with the expectancy of Katy slowing down and dedicating more of herself to being a wife and possibly a mother. I think for a majority of us we enter in relationships with the expectancy of our partner being the ideal version of who we desire them to be. We end up heartbroken when we require those that we love to meet our unrealistic expectations opposed to loving them for who they are and meeting them halfway.
I think it’s a bit selfish on Russell’s part to go public and state that he felt that his relationship wouldn’t last, but I also feel as if it’s just him being hurt and unable to tame his ego. Men deal with their emotions completely differently than we do as women. I feel as if his shocking revelation is more so from a place or hurt and anger more than truly how he felt. There’s no way we are out here settling down and committing to people who we feel we won’t spend our lives with or are we? I also think that men shouldn’t require the women that they marry to slow up or slow down in terms of their careers after getting married. If you met me as a successful woman you should continue to support and accept me as such. I honestly believe, Russell wanted Katy to stop being the kick ass woman she is and live up to the expectations of the woman he created in his mind. Either way I wish them both happiness and healing past their broken relationship. Myself and Wendy want to know what you all think? Give us your honest opinion and feedback on today’s Hot Topic. I also want to know have you ever experienced an ex throwing shade or slightly bashing you when the relationship ended and how did you deal with it? Have you been with a person or were you the person in the relationship wanting your partner to be different or change just because of the relationship? Were you the bitter ex? Please do share, we want to know. Looking forward to what you all have to say!
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